Podcast Episode 413: Why Teens Want Deep Talks at Midnight (and How to Survive It)
Ever been halfway to dreamland when your teen suddenly appears in the doorway, ready for a full-blown therapy session? You’re sitting there—mascara smeared, brain buffering, clutching your pillow—wondering why teen bedtime conversations always happen when you’re two blinks away from REM sleep.
It’s the ultimate mom paradox: you want to be supportive, but you also want to, you know… sleep.
Before you start blaming screens, hormones, or that third cup of Coke Zero, there’s actually a deeper reason why teens talk at night—and it has more to do with connection than chaos. In this episode, we get real about the midnight confessions every parent of teens knows too well, and how to handle them without turning into a grumpy zombie. Because parenting teens means finding balance between being present and protecting your own peace.
If you’ve ever wondered how to talk to teens without losing your mind, or how to start setting boundaries with teens who think 10PM is prime bonding time, this one’s for you. Listen in to find out how to survive those late-night conversations with teens and still wake up feeling like a well-rested, guilt-free mom.
In this episode of the No Guilt Mom podcast you’ll learn:
- Why your teen’s brain is wired to open up after your bedtime
- How to set healthy nighttime boundaries without shutting your teen out
- What to say when you’re too tired to listen but don’t want to hurt their feelings
- A genius “pause phrase” that keeps communication open and guilt low
Resources We Shared In This Episode:
Washington Post: Teens open up at night. Parents should embrace that
No Guilt Mom Podcast Ep 068: Thriving with Your Teen with Dr. Lisa Bravo
No Guilt Mom Podcast Ep 207: Building a Strong Parent-Teen Relationship with Sheryl Gould
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