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Podcast Episode 393: Overfunctioning and Over It: Why Doing More Isn’t Helping

So here’s the scene: You’re folding laundry, scheduling dentist appointments, picking up a birthday gift for your kid’s classmate (that you found out about this morning), and you just remembered it’s taco night… again. Meanwhile, your partner is marveling at how “on top of everything” you are. Cute, right? Except you’re two meltdowns and one caffeine crash away from losing it completely. I’ve been there. Heck, I’ve lived there. And if no one else has told you lately: just because you can do it all doesn’t mean you should. That’s the trap of overfunctioning.

The wild part? Most of us don’t even realize we’re doing it. We’re so used to jumping in, fixing the messes, smoothing things over, and picking up the slack that it feels like muscle memory. We tell ourselves we’re being helpful. That we’re just “showing love.” But listen, mama—doing everything isn’t helping your family, and it’s definitely not helping you. It’s exhausting. And when you’re always the safety net, nobody else learns to climb. Learning how to stop overfunctioning as a mom isn’t just about self-care—it’s about changing the entire dynamic at home.

Now, I know what you’re thinking. “But if I stop, everything will fall apart!” Oh friend, I’ve said the same thing. But here’s the deal: your worth isn’t measured by your productivity, and your family is more capable than you think—if you give them the chance. If you’re ready to get some breathing room, keep listening. Because we’re diving into exactly how to stop overfunctioning as a mom without the whole house falling to pieces (spoiler: it won’t).

In this episode of the No Guilt Mom podcast you’ll learn:

  • How to recognize when you’re overfunctioning
  • Why we need to stop treating rest like a luxury
  • What your emotional and time capacity are 
  • How to stop confusing being busy with being valuable

Resources We Shared In This Episode:

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Access the full episode transcript HERE

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Brie Tucker

COO/ Podcast Producer at No Guilt Mom
Brie Tucker has over 20 years of experience coaching parents with a background in early childhood and special needs. She holds a B.S. in Psychology from the University of Central Missouri and is certified in Positive Discipline as well as a Happiest Baby Educator.

She’s a divorced mom to two teenagers.

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