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Let's face it--there's nothing more frustrating than asking for help from your family, only to have them complain and never actually take responsibility in your household. And there's nothing more disheartening than doing everything on your own--only to feel constantly behind.
You know that your family should be helping out more. Maybe you've even tried a new organization system or chore charts.
And yet, it's not quite working.
No one ever seems to listen to you. You have to constantly remind and nag your kids about what they need to do. It feels like your kids are constantly fighting either each other or you - and you're not quite sure how to handle the conflict.
Other people make it look easy. But for you, it's been anything but. You thought that the hard part was going to following up and staying consistent, but as it turns out, there's just too much. And now you feel like you must be missing something.
And you're not alone.
The truth is that having your family take on more at home is a game changer, one that will reduce your stress, teach your kids that responsibility they so need, and even increase your happiness.
The problem? The pushback, the constant reminding, and the fighting often make getting your family to share the work more trouble than it's worth.
But what if there was a way to make sure you got it right?
I remember the moment two years ago that I knew things needed to change.
It was the day after Christmas and I had just bought all the Christmas presents, wrapped all the gifts, and organized the meals - on top of keeping on top of my own job, taking my kids to after-school activities, and managing my son's frequent intense emotions.
I sat on the couch and cried. Huge, heaving, try to catch-my-breath sobs.
There I was, doing EVERYTHING and still feeling like a huge disappointment.
That's when I knew I couldn't do it all anymore. My kids expected me to take care of waking them up, taking care of their every need and always being available... that it wasn't teaching them the responsibility I wanted them to develop.
So, I started changing how I asked. I used strategies from psychology and the strong communication skills that I learned by being a classroom teacher.
Instead of coming up with solutions myself, I brought my family in on the problem solving. Instead of putting it all on me, I delegated to others. I'm going to help you do the same.
Calm & Happy Parenting is a fun, effective parenting system, designed to help you communicate your concerns, find your kids' real reasons for pushback and engage your family in problem solving so that you can delegate the work to your family without the guilt.
Calm & Happy Parenting was originally created to help overwhelmed moms get their kids to take on more responsibility because the stress of "doing it all" creates resentment and burnout, and has so far helped moms go from feeling like they're drowning at home to feeling confidently in control.
If you are a mom who feels like she's doing everything, or if you feel like you ask kids to do things a hundred times and they never listen, this is an opportunity that I promise you will not want to miss.
As a mom, you're always trying to find the balance between doing too much and not doing enough. You constantly feel like you're being pulled in a million directions, you never have enough time for everyone, and feel never-ending guilt. Let's change that now.
Before any big change, we need to take stock of what we have now and what we want to happen. Overwhelm comes from trying to do everything at once. That's why we first step back and set priorities.
As adults, we tend to make assumptions like our kids are lazy, selfish or disrespectful. That's typically not the case! I'll show you how to drill down to help you find the true reasons that kids aren't listening and doing what they're asked.
Ever lose your cool and yell at your kids? Haven't we all? That's usually because our own needs aren't being met. In this step, you'll focus on figuring out what you want and sharing in a way that gets cooperation.
When you feel like it all falls on you, you tend to make decisions that don't work for everyone. In this step, you'll learn how to engage your kids in discussion to find a solution that works for the entire family.
Now you take action! Here's where you'll create your simple, easy to follow through on plan that gives your kids more responsibility, reduces your stress and gives you more positive time with your kids.
Our programs take parents from nagging, reminding and feeling like they're doing it all... to more confident and in control. Hear how these moms have transformed their lives with support from No Guilt Mom.
"I was doing everything by myself and now I set better boundaries."
"I felt like I was questioning and doubting myself. Now, I'm able to step back, take a breath and figure out how to implement parenting strategies with each one of my kids."
"As a mom, I feel like we have to nag our kids all the time. I hate being a nag. And now, I don't have to."
"When school started my daughter was like a different student!! She automatically took charge and made decisions on how and when she would do things"
When you purchase Calm & Happy Parenting, you'll have instant access to all the tools you need to smash your overwhelm by delegating more to your family without any complicated follow-through. Our proven process provides a step-by-step plan for how to control your own emotions and get the entire family to get along better, so you'll never wonder what your next step should be.
THE CALM & HAPPY PARENTING CURRICULUM
Calm & Happy Parenting shares a proven process for solving disputes, controlling your own emotions, and getting your family to contribute more - one that'll become part of your parenting game plan and that you'll use again and again.
It breaks up the process into five easy-to-understand phases that when put together will change the entire tone in your home. Not only will your family help out more, but your stress will go away and you'll feel successful as a parent.
The five sessions are:
Lesson 1: Have Priorities
The first step, Have Priorities, will help you laser focus on your current strengths as well as the areas you want to change first.
Lesson 2: Accept Your Kids POV
The second step, Accept Your Kids POV, will show to drill down to find your kids' true objections to helping more. Once you know these, your patience multiplies and you shift to a teaching mindset instead of angry and overwhelmed.
Lesson 3: Process Your Own Concerns
The third step, Process Your Own Concerns, will teach you a simple way to discover and communicate your needs to your family - so that they actually listen.
Lesson 4: Problem Solve
The fourth step, Problem Solve, will be a parenting game-changer. No longer will you feel like the brunt of all decisions is on you. This method will give your family members equal responsibility in the household.
Lesson 5: Yield the Work
The fifth and final step, Yield, is where you'll make your simple, easy-to-follow-through game plan that'll reduce your stress, give your kids more responsibility, and gets you more positive time with your kids.
BONUS #1: HOW TO MAKE TIME MINI-COURSE
Why didn't anyone ever teach us time management? Instead we create these endless to-do lists and then feel completely defeated at the end of the day. No longer! This 1-hour training will give you the simple system to accomplish what's important to you and help you set boundaries on your time.
I'll show the simple system I use to sync all my commitments, my family's activities and get a WHOLE LOT done with the stress, overwhelm and feeling constantly behind.
It's also how you'll find the time for self-improvement and work this course into your schedule.
BONUS #2: WHAT SHOULD I EXPECT FROM MY KID? (GROUPED BY AGE-LEVEL)
Are you expecting too much or not enough? Never second guess whether your child is too young for a task or wonder if your middle schooler is doing enough. These easy reference guides cover from Preschool to High School with a list of skills and abilities typical at every age.
100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEED
Calm & Happy Parenting is designed to teach you the communication style that will get your family to contribute more, control your own emotions and have everyone in the family get along better. It's a step-by-step, methodical method that will eliminate your overwhelm and give you more positive time with your kids. We're so confident about this that we'll put it in writing. If you complete the five weeks of lessons and assignments and feel that we've not delivered on our promise, we'll gladly refund 100% of your money back (request must be submitted within 60 days of original purchase).
Here's what's included:
Here's what's included:
Calm & Happy Parenting is a five-lesson curriculum that will take away your overwhelm by getting your family to contribute more. Through our sessions, you'll learn an effective way to connect with your kids, express your own feelings and problem solve a solution with your family.
You'll master an effective way of communicating with your family that gets your kids to fight backless and cooperate more.
All sessions are video-led and can be found in your Calm & Happy Parenting hub.
You also receive the No Guilt Mom Time Management Training, "What Should I Expect from My Kid?" reference guide.
In Calm & Happy Parenting, you'll learn how to :
At this time, the workbooks for Calm & Happy Parenting are only available in digital PDF format. You can print the workbook each week and keep it in a 3-ring binder, or you can print just the pages you need.
Calm & Happy Parenting will be delivered digitally, via the email address you provide at checkout. Your login will arrive within 5-10 minutes of your purchase.
You'll have access to all the lessons immediately after purchase.
Calm & Happy Parenting is a step-by-step, methodical method that will eliminate your overwhelm and give you more positive time with your kids. If you complete the five lessons and assignments and feel that we've not delivered on our promise, we'll gladly refund 100% of your money back. Refund requests must be submitted within 6 weeks of the original purchase.
If you feel overwhelmed and know you should be asking for more help, but aren't quite sure how. Or if you asked for help in the past and your family pushed back so hard that you feel it's easier to do everything yourself, Calm & Happy Parenting is for you.
However, it's not for you if you're unwilling to change your approach to the problem. Calm & Happy Parenting will teach you how to get your family to contribute more by changing the way you communicate.
I started using this method on my son when he was two-years-old. Since this is a whole style of communicating and not a specific trick or hack - Calm & Happy Parenting works for kids ages 2-18.
However, you'll find that the methods of communicating you learn in Calm & Happy Parenting will work in your adult relationships, too. Even with your parenting partner.
Unlike typical parenting programs that focus on tactics for discipline, Calm & Happy Parenting focuses on changing the way you communicate. Its not about setting strict rules or complicated scenarios that you need to follow-through on or be consistent with.
Rather, we take the guilt out of parenting by teaching you how to drill down to find your child's actual concerns, how to express your own concerns in a way that gets your family to listen to you, and finally how to problem solve together to find a solution that works for everyone.
I'm not saying it lightly when I say that this method is a parenting game-changer.
The investment for the basic package of Calm & Happy Parenting is a one-time price of $198.
With that, you receive the core curriculum (video lessons & digital workbooks) of Calm & Happy Parent (a $198 value), our time management strategy mini-course, How to Make More Time (a $57 value), the What Should I Expect from My Kid? Easy Reference Guide ($19 value).
No, there will be nothing shipped. This is a comprehensive system for parents to get their families to help out more by changing the way they communicate. It's five lessons delivered live through Zoom plus printable lesson materials and workbooks. Please keep in mind that all printable materials are delivered digitally in PDF format.
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